Birth Parent Locate
Birth Parent Locate Investigation
Children who know that they have been adopted are haunted by uncertainties. Why didn’t my biological family want me? Does either of my parents miss me? Does my mother remember me on my birthday? Have I inherited some condition or predilection that I need to be aware of to protect my health and well-being? Do I have siblings that might be happy to know me? Yes, an abundance of questions exist post adoption for all concerned, but the answers are often allusive, and presumably unattainable.
Whether you are an adoptee who wants to trace your biological mother/father, or a birth parent who wishes to trace a son or daughter given up for adoption, it is our pleasure to help in many different ways
Finding your birth parents, or tracing a child given up for adoption, is a three or four stage process, dependent upon what you already know and what your end objective is. We have many years experience in not only tracing their current whereabouts, but in sensitively helping you to make an approach in a manner that has the utmost consideration for all parties and their potential sensitivities. While not all stages are obligatory, you may wish to consider them carefully, as outlined below.
It is very helpful for us if we can meet with you first. We have a quiet meeting room available at our main office or can make an arrangement local to you. Meeting will help us to discuss the options and some of the potential implications. Without breaking anyone’s confidentiality, we can tell you about some of our other experiences and the different way in which searches and contact can go.
Identification
Your name at birth is not necessarily the name you grew up with and we will need to obtain this information if you have not already done so.
The only people who have access to your adoption record are you and your birth mother / child.
Tracing
This is where our work really begins. We have a lot of experience in tracing people, and it is not as straightforward as the internet will lead you to believe. Your birth parents names may changed / call by local names, and therefore changed her name (the same applying to a child); often the problem is not one of locating ‘Jane Smith’ but of identifying which ‘Jane Smith’ of possibly hundreds is the right one. The information we obtain may be definitive or it may need further work.
Information
When the subject’s location has been identified you may want to find out a little more about them. We can identify some factors – such as whether they have children (your half brothers and sisters) – from records but this tells you little about a person’s life. Without intruding on their privacy, it can be a good idea for us to make some discreet physical enquiries to ascertain their circumstances, health etc.
Contact
We handle contact very sensitively and will prefer to make it for you. It needs to be by a personal visit, confidential and discreet. Given the opportunity, we will meet with your relative and find out how they feel about the issue, whether they wish to have contact, and, initially, how – this needs to be in a manner that meets their needs as well as yours.
Paternity / DNA
There may be a need to prove paternity We can facilitate testing, talking to both sides and ensuring discretion and sensitivity
Good information will allow you to make informed decisions
FAQ
Adoption search
Adoption search can be hard. Are you an adoptee wondering how to find your birth parents? A birth mother searching for your adopted child? Search My Family has compiled a team of experienced, licensed professionals, genealogists, and professional researchers to aid you in your search.
The decision to find a birth family member or the child you placed for adoption (adoptee) can be daunting and difficult. You might wonder:
- Where do I start?
- How do I search?
- What will I find?
Many opt to search for birth relatives on their own. Unfortunately, too often searching for adoption records without professional support is a dead end.
Our team has spent many years reuniting those who have been separated through adoption. Our team is uniquely comprised of adoption constellation members who are well-versed in all adoption search scenarios.
Take the first steps in your search by filling out the form for a free evaluation of your search, click the Free Evaluation button to get scheduled.
WHAT SERVICES DO YOU PROVIDE?
We collect all available information from you regarding the party that you are searching for and conduct a search using all legal resources, databases, and public records at our disposal. We may then contact the other side to verify the relationship and assess their willingness to be contacted by our client, after which we convey all of the information we have collected to you.
ARE YOUR BIRTH RELATIVE SEARCHES GUARANTEED?
No licensed, private investigative firm can guarantee a positive outcome to an adoption search. In many cases, the information provided at the time of birth may have been falsified, incorrect or incomplete. What we will guarantee is we will not accept your search unless there is at least a 90% chance of us solving it.
WILL I RECEIVE UPDATES DURING MY BIRTH PARENT OR ADOPTEE SEARCH?
You will be working hand in hand with a number of our investigative research team members. Any time we have new information or additional questions, you will be contacted immediately.
HOW LONG DOES A BIRTH FAMILY SEARCH TAKE?
There is no way to gauge how long a search will take. Some searches could take a week; some could take months or years. Our shortest search took 2 hours, while some of our longer cases took 5 years. It all depends on how much information is provided and how cooperative the states and/or agencies involved are.
CAN I CANCEL MY ADOPTION-RELATED SEARCH?
You may cancel your search at any time; however, since you have paid in full and search fees are non-refundable we suggest you put a hold on your search instead. A hold will allow you to revisit the search at a later time. When searching, emotions may arise that you are not prepared for, and taking time to process while temporarily pausing your search can be helpful.
ARE YOUR SEARCHES DISCREET?
In the course of our search, it will be necessary to disclose some information surrounding the adoption to verify that we have the correct parties, but we do so in the most discreet manner possible while protecting the confidential nature of the search.
WHAT INFORMATION IS NEEDED TO START A SEARCH?
In your initial consultation, we will ask you specifics, but any dates, locations, organizations, and non-identifying information you have will be useful, even if you think it may be inconsequential.
WHY CAN'T I JUST SEARCH ONLINE?
Often the internet doesn’t contain enough information to enable someone to locate a birth relative on their own. We have access to additional resources, knowledge, and experience that enables us to resolve even some of the tougher cases.
CAN I SEARCH ON MY OWN?
Family Search India has a give you free search advice from those who have found birth relatives, and a free registry. We encourage you to take advantage of these services and contact us if additional help is needed.
HOW SHOULD I APPROACH MAKING CONTACT/REUNION?
Every person, and thus every situation, is unique, but there are some common bits of advice from those who have been reunited:
- Don’t have expectations/be prepared to accept any outcome.
- Be in a good place in your own adoption experience so as not to transfer any anxiety, burden, guilt, or expectation to the other party.
- Birth parents should not expect or attempt to “pick up where they left off” or replace the adoptee’s family.
- All parties should consider the perspective and feelings of all who may be affected (spouse and/or children of the searched party, adoptive parents of adoptee, etc.) and proceed with sensitivity.
- Adoption.com has compiled stories and advice from others who have searched in a free eBook. You can download it for free here.
- Our professional team has years of experience handling delicate first contact calls. While we encourage you and will coach you to make the call yourself, should you feel uncomfortable or unable to make the call, we will make that call for you.
CONTACT US
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We love to listen and we are eagerly waiting to talk to you regarding your project. Get in touch with us if you have any queries and we will get back to you as soon as possible.
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